Server: vps.mrchartist.com
vps.mrchartist.com
Terminal: ssh yourname@vps.mrchartist.com
ssh yourname@vps.mrchartist.com
Desktop: tunnel with ssh -L 3389:localhost:3389 yourname@vps.mrchartist.com, then Remote Desktop to localhost:3389.
ssh -L 3389:localhost:3389 yourname@vps.mrchartist.com
localhost:3389